Sacred Pleasures

Lady Cacao

"It’s a loving sensual workshop that uses the spirit of Cacao to open up a loving sexual and mildly kinky exploration of myself and the other spirits in the group. I loved the partner work in the morning and liked the gentle loving buzz that the cacao provided – love the fact that there was no sense of being out of control or any drug like downer afterwards. I found the cacao opened a loving space with the group and the individuals I was working with very quickly which was lovely.”

“It was delicious, chocolate, velvety, loving, space to be and connect with others who are conscious and free. I liked the boundary exercises and chance to connect before moving into the play party. The Cacao gave a spiritual dimension and made it really easy for me to connect more deeply and let go of worries or fears.”

“It was a sensual day of gently increased openness. Boundaries could be explored with greater ease and conscious decisions could be made with integrity. The cacao made me feel fluffier inside. More cuddly. I didn’t feel the slightest bit awkward with saying “No” during the play party and they were well received too.” Rob

“[It was] a delightful opportunity to feel my open heart expanded and connected with others in a delicious, sacred transcendence. I loved the venue; the sense of well-boundaried exploration; the work we did on Yes and No. This last element, for me, rolled significantly into the play party, which I enjoyed immensely! I came to the event already with an open heart, excited about what we were about to do. This sense deepened when I discovered others there with whom I have enjoyed yummy experiences before, and this spread to nearly all the other participants, as I got to know them. I do think that the cacao helped open my heart further.”

“[It was] a delicious and safe container to explore the intersection between the buzz of cacao, kink and sensual touch, suitable for beginners and more experienced explorers alike. I liked the mix of structure and non-structure, and the progression through from connecting with yourself in initial meditation, to connecting with others in a structured way, to connecting with others in an unstructured way. I really liked the expressing desires to do something with specific people (just being able to put that into the space, with no pressure for response, and being able to feel free to express desire without the fear of getting an outright rejection), and the expression of non-person-specific desires into the circle. That set up the play party wonderfully. The space felt well held and safe.”



"Something had been stirred up from this event, the meaning I gave to it, the magic of it, the mastery of the holding, in its truth and nakedness and sense of the sacred pleasure so imbibing each moment and each touch.

It’s one of those occasions for me where you are not looking for love but it hits you in a new kind of form… and afterwards you have to admit somewhere in your mind that it was real and so your picture of the world has to shift and after the dark night and after the thrashing feeling of pain in my body rebelling against all the constraints I have imposed over so many years, I have the sweetest pleasure of admitting that these things are possible.” – Sofia

“I just want to thank everyone again for your immense generosity on every level – the ‘togetherness’ of the experience was so heart-opening and really what made it different from anything remotely similar that I might have experienced before. Thank you for seeing me, as I am, without my feeling that I had to be anything other than myself.” – Wendy

“Even back at work it seems possible to shine on. I also feel knackered from stopping all the effort to put barriers up around everything, I feel tired because I’m now allowing myself to believe I am loved and lovable and it was such an effort resisting love before. It was powerful and delicious, very intense and I am sad it’s over.” – Katy

“It was liking lifting the veil on how a group could drop into love in one weekend…”

“[Together is] a magical place that allows everyone’s authentic self to shine through and be witnessed and nurtured.” – Ash

“While there were certainly difficult and challenging moments, for possibly the first time I felt that I was truly able to grow into them rather than be set back – and that is a tribute to the space that all you wonderful people created.”

“If I had to describe it I’d say: Letting go to come together in a caring and beautiful space.” – Katy

“The clear and easeful facilitation assisted me to enter into new processes with minimal nervousness. The pace was perfect for me. It’s a fabulous workshop connecting people to their desires with space to experience them. Joyful, fun and deep.” Diana

“I came with high expectations: of transcendence and magic… It was more than that. We became a group experiencing what it truly means to be human; stripped of ‘civilisation’.”

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Old Skin New Skin

"I feel different. I can feel changes and transformations developing within me, some happy and comfortable, some feeling more uncomfortable, but all welcome. I feel more present in the world and in myself" - Emma

"The facilitators were inspiring, and the space securely yet gently held. Participants were led in easy stages, --practicing interpersonal skills and experimenting with the unknown in a measured and light-hearted way--  to be prepared and able to embrace the deep transformational work that formed the culmination of the workshop." - Ruth

"I feel like I've been on some wild hunt with you all, flying through the air and grubbing through the earth, uncovering treasures light and dark. My body is aching with transformation. Merry meet, merry part, merry meet again, thank you so much for all the incredible love and support" - Anon

"You created a safe nest with the amazing space holders, which gave the space to be vulnerable and small. And there was so much compassion and understanding from everyone, that it was possible to be so honest (first of all to myself)." - Petra

"The group was great, the way the space was held - it felt very safe and supportive, and with lots of skilled people to learn from, the variety of activities felt very complementary. I loved being able to make my own intention and freely devise my ritual, with only the limitations of the space, that felt really special. - Mélanie

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Purple Door

“The Purple Door was humbling, heart opening, thrilling, joyful, expansive and inclusive. It is a weekend I will always remember for the opportunity to touch the aliveness that is my birthright.” – Michelle

“The workshop gives an experiential and practical opportunity to understand the magic of BDSM and the principles that make it works. The emphasis on authentic relating and listening make this much more than a skills workshop, leading to real connection.”

“A safe, loving and open space in which everyone was invited to explore their curiosity and push their boundaries.” – Libby

“It was a wonderful, open, connected workshop to explore our creativity and learn safely both how to use and experience impact play, so we can go out into the world to share and play! The next day one of my friends said ‘why are you so glowing this evening?’, so it clearly works! I felt deeply satisfied and nourished by the workshop.” – Becky

 “An opportunity to try out or develop kinky skills in a genuinely sex-positive, open-minded, whole-hearted, welcoming, safe space, expertly led and run.” – Chris

“I had an extraordinary weekend. The workshop was impeccably led, supported, resourced and priced. Bloody perfect as far as I’m concerned. I shall be highly recommending it all around town. It was a lovingly held walk into the delicious unknown landscape of ecstatic BDSM. A place to make love in so many ways and learn more about myself through the doorways of pleasure and pain.”

“I enjoyed the very gentle and loving approach, and the way in which the topic of BDSM was presented. I was very nervous at the beginning, but thanks to you and the atmosphere you created, my nerves passed and I stopped worrying about it. I was very surprised at how I felt after the “more challenging moments”. I felt very nice and loved. Adrenalin started to spread within my body; the joy from something unexpected!” – Petra

“I liked the way the workshop builds up; took me by the hand and guided me step by step into new grounds. I liked the openness for all kind of gender configurations. I liked the fact that nothing could be done wrong or said wrong; everything was gently given a place in the whole." – Anna

“I really appreciated the safe space [that was] provided, the very pleasant personal behaviour, professionalism and overall the welcoming approach. I left the workshop totally blown away and full of excitement [...] [The workshop was] deep, juicy, inspiring, relaxed and safe. Thanks!” – Sarka

“I felt very safe from the very beginning, which is important for me. What I have experienced on this workshop is truly indescribable. Big thanks to Faerie and his team” – Lucie

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“More taboo than sex, intimacy is the most avoided theme of our human lives. And yet it is the most deeply desired, and the most important contribution to the relationships that we have with ourselves, and with others. Intimately, the workshop, provided a space to delve deeply and gently into intimacy in a way that felt real, raw and held. It opened my heart and my eyes to what I have been missing. I won't be letting this fullness of connection be a mystery to me anymore.” – Michelle

“A magical- and also very, very real- place to learn more about experiencing myself and other people in a very, very different way. A way that holds deeper pleasure, fuller pain and sadness, more vulnerability and more power than I ever dreamed possible in this lifetime.”

“Intimately has left me with a soft, flowing, connected glow. Also, with new ways to become closer to friends and lovers (and indeed i know my partner even more than when we started, which is a wonderful feeling, and how better to be with him). There is a new space in my heart and soul for an intimacy which is richer and deeper and wider than before. I feel a renewed joy at the bravery and openess of the people there, of us together, and as always with new connections to people which i hope will grow, grow me, grow them, grow us all. YES!” – Becky

“An amazing experience to develop intimacy at the most general yet deepest level. An exploration into ones vulnerability, boundaries and desires through skills of expression, of listening and of detachment, yet connecting. A beautiful balance between guidance, coaching, and support and a provision of freedom and space for one to be and reveal oneself at the most truthful level.”

“Intimately was a welcoming, lovingly crafted space where I felt able to explore my own and others’ frailties and magnificence. It took me one step closer towards the full experience of being alive.” – Chris

“I loved everything about Intimately. The teaching and guiding are first rate, the depth of it was so touching, all the exercises were eye-openers, the music was transportational and the group that came together, magical” – Bayari

“The weekend has felt like a luxurious, meaningful and gorgeous gift to myself. Inner most wounds have begun to heal and stifled parts of myself have begun to blossom. I feel I have been able to embody things I have known only in my head. I feel whole and connected” - Siobhan

Transformative and supportive workshop where everyone is encouraged to work on their personal situations, with no pressure or expectation. A group where literally everybody was engaged and open, and where it was a safe space to explore.” - Nick


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